<p>Ok hey y'all its been a few days and I've been trying really hard to find something really good to talk about and I've finally got it.</p>
<p>WARNING: I am about to go on a rant so if you are under the age of 14, or you don't want to read it then I suggest you just go to Facebook or whatever else you were doing before you dropped by. Better luck next time.</p>
<p>So now that I've put that out there let's get started.</p>
<p>Today I want to just want to get some things off my chest and I want every single one of you girls reading this to take what I'm about to say to heart.</p>
<p>We all know that as you grow up and the hormones kick in, boys no longer have cooties. They become the one thing that won't leave leave our minds. (as for any LBGTQ, substitute guy in here for your preference.) As time goes on the guys start to notice and we're thrilled. But I'll tell you what after their hormones kick in it seems that most guys all they want is sex or something that related to it. I mean there is a statistic floating around that on average a male thinks about sex every 53 SECONDS. That's at least once a minute. A little excessive if you ask me. </p>
<p>This relates to what I'm getting at I promise. So here is my story. In the past six months alone I have been told that I am a prude twice. And for those of you who don't know what it means. Its someone easily shocked by matters dealing with sex or nudity. <br>
I'll be the first to tell you I'm no prude, and my friends will back me up. </p>
<p>If the definition of prude was, waiting to be in love before doing anything on the sexual spectrum. Then by all means call me a prude all you want. But it's not.
Girls this is where I want your full attention. If a guy ever tells you that you are a prude or any other name. Tells you that you're a child because having sex makes you an adult, asks you to prove them wrong by having sex. Any kind of sex. Before you're absolutely sure you are ready. It's ok to tell them no. They might be mad at first but I'm going to tell you in the long run they're going to gain respect for you. The one thing I tell myself every time this happens to me. I say to myself "You are beautiful just the way you are. Having sex doesn't make you grown up and if you do this for the wrong reasons it may come back in the long run as a bad thing. By not having sex until you're ready you are showing respect to yourself and the person that you fall in love with. Waiting is not a bad thing and you can be proud on the day your daughter asks you who the first person you had sex with was and you can tell her it was someone you loved very much. Regardless of whether it's her father or not I can almost guarantee she will just be proud of you."
So, that's the end of my rant maybe next time I 'll discuss the male side but for now I'm finished. If you think I'm wrong fine take it as what you will this is my opinion and I stand by it.
Until Next Time
No comments:
Post a Comment