Tuesday, August 14, 2012

Interesting topic

<p>Ok hey y'all its been a few days and I've been trying really hard to find something really good to talk about and I've finally got it.</p>
<p>WARNING: I am about to go on a rant so if you are under the age of 14, or you don't want to read it then I suggest you just go to Facebook or whatever else you were doing before you dropped by. Better luck next time.</p>
<p>So now that I've put that out there let's get started.</p>
<p>Today I want to just want to get some things off my chest and I want every single one of you girls reading this to take what I'm about to say to heart.</p>
<p>We all know that as you grow up and the hormones kick in, boys no longer have cooties. They become the one thing that won't leave leave our minds. (as for any LBGTQ, substitute guy in here for your preference.) As time goes on the guys start to notice and we're thrilled. But I'll tell you what after their hormones kick in it seems that most guys all they want is sex or something that related to it. I mean there is a statistic floating around that on average a male thinks about sex every 53 SECONDS. That's at least once a minute. A little excessive if you ask me. </p>
<p>This relates to what I'm getting at I promise. So here is my story. In the past six months alone I have been told that I am a prude twice. And for those of you who don't know what it means. Its someone easily shocked by matters dealing with sex or nudity. <br>
I'll be the first to tell you I'm no prude, and my friends will back me up. </p>
<p>If the definition of prude was, waiting to be in love before doing anything on the sexual spectrum. Then by all means call me a prude all you want. But it's not.

Girls this is where I want your full attention. If a guy ever tells you that you are a prude or any other name. Tells you that you're a child because having sex makes you an adult, asks you to prove them wrong by having sex. Any kind of sex. Before you're absolutely sure you are ready. It's ok to tell them no. They might be mad at first but I'm going to tell you in the long run they're going to gain respect for you. The one thing I tell myself every time this happens to me. I say to myself "You are beautiful just the way you are. Having sex doesn't make you grown up and if you do this for the wrong reasons it may come back in the long run as a bad thing. By not having sex until you're ready you are showing respect to yourself and the person that you fall in love with. Waiting is not a bad thing and you can be proud on the day your daughter asks you who the first person you had sex with was and you can tell her it was someone you loved very much. Regardless of whether it's her father or not I can almost guarantee she will just be proud of you." 

So, that's the end of my rant maybe next time I 'll discuss the male side but for now I'm finished. If you think I'm wrong fine take it as what you will this is my opinion and I stand by it.

                             Until Next Time

Wednesday, August 8, 2012

Thanks

So today at work was pretty hectic. More than any other day that I've been at the service desk. It seemed as though after my lunch I couldn't pull myself back together enough to be able to go solo for the rest of the evening. So tonights blog is basically a shout out to the six associates that helped me to be able to  finish my shift. Unfortunately, for many reasons I am not going to mention names. Even though I'd really like to, especially today. But, let's just say I had someone to call on when I needed help and he never left me stranded in the constant sea of customers. The cool one who is always doing the little extra stuff to make my job a lot less stressful and more entertaining. And so many others. I'm just so glad that our store is so tight knit we are like one big family. I've said it before and I know I'll say it at least fifty more times.

Thank you all for everything you all do. Not just for me but for everyone. You know they say time flies when your having fun and gosh is that the truth. I was talking to a few of the girls that I became really close with when I started and when I told them its been almost a year since I started they couldn't believe it. And honestly its even surprising to me how fast the time has gone by.

Well it's time for me to catch some zz's so...

                    Until Next Time

Friday, August 3, 2012

How I've been

Well just letting y'all know how I am. Its been very hectic these last few weeks.

My family and I had to make the very difficult decision to put my dog Charlie to sleep. He was just getting very old and we think he had cancer in his neck. So since then I really didn't feel like writing until today.

Other than that I just have been thinking about whether or not I should move back to West Virginia and live with my grandma again. Regardless of whether or not I move in with her, stay with my parents, move in with a friend, or my cousin I've still got a move ahead of me.  Of course two options involve transfers for my job, and that's something I've been heavily considering if I really want to do or not.

Another thing I wanted to tell you about is that possibly by my birthday I will have my first tattoo. I'm so excited and I just really can't wait I'm sure there will be a blog to go with that experience along with tons if pictures. So hopefully some of you are as excited as I am for that.

And last but not least an update on the missing girls. Lyric and Elizabeth have still not been  found. And no new developments have come about to my knowledge. On Wednesday, Elizabeth turned 9 and a bunch of people got together and made cupcakes for all the businesses that donated during the search, which I must say is a really creative way to say thank you and I know that a lot of people enjoyed the wonderful cupcakes.
Just a reminder keep praying sending good vibes  or whatever it is that you all do. Turn you porch lights on, wear pink and if you've got a tree or a telephone pole or something in your yard tie a pink ribbon around if you want. My town is full of them. Help your town be to. If you'd like to help any other way. Leave it in the comments or send me an email. My email should be listed on my profile.

                           Until Next Time